fear Archives - Why Be Merely Human https://whybemerelyhuman.com/tag/fear/ Sun, 26 Oct 2014 02:18:37 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Heart https://whybemerelyhuman.com/heart/ https://whybemerelyhuman.com/heart/#respond Wed, 15 Oct 2014 20:44:15 +0000 https://whybemerelyhuman.com/?p=8 It is dawn. The air is heavy with moisture, the sun just barely beginning to make its appearance over the gently sloping hills. The...

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It is dawn.

The air is heavy with moisture, the sun just barely beginning to make its appearance over the gently sloping hills. The soft sunlight shimmers through the dew-dropped trees and knee-high grass, and not a sound is heard as the world begins to awaken.

My Beloved himself gently wakes me, invites me to come.
“Good Morning, My Love”, he whispers. “The day I have brilliantly and lovingly created for you is now ready! Walk with me and leave your fears behind. I will prepare you fully for all that the day has to offer.”
And we walk. Slowly, talking quietly, basking in His loving presence. He fills me up and I gratefully breathe Him in. We make our way to the pasture…
Where Heart is waiting.
She is indeed a beauty! Strong and majestic, brimming with life! Full of potential, and yet still quite untamed. She often shows herself to be stubborn. Willful. Wayward. Passionate but misguided.

She has been mine since we were both very young, and Beloved has been teaching me daily to “break” her. As we climb the last hill to the pasture where she is kept, I see her – and she sees me. This morning, like many mornings, she immediately shows signs of defiance – she stands tall, holds her head high, and digs her hooves into the ground. She whinnies and grunts and takes a few steps back.
It is early in the morning, and I am already uneasy. Can I do this?
Misgivings and fear begin to cloud my thoughts, and I hesitate.
Beloved chuckles. A deep, soothing sound… and without a word, He walks towards her… and she is calm. He certainly has a way with her. In His presence she is tame and peaceful. And I am suddenly filled with gratitude, knowing that He is always available to me throughout my day’s journeys.
He takes hold of the reins and slowly offers them up to me. I receive them and, with a gentle boost from my Father, I take my seat in the beautiful, worn leather saddle.
And we’re off.
I use the reins to turn Heart towards a new path, one I have not yet traveled. Admittedly, I am a bit fearful! I know for certain that trials and tests await me on that path. I know that at times the trees will be thick and it might even be hard to see even the sunlight. At other times it will lead me through an open meadow, bright and lively and quiet. I may even encounter dangers…
He walks just beside me for a little while, affirming me with kind words and offering bits of advice. He places his hand softly on my mine.
“You’re ready,” He assures me. “As you know, I am always available if you call out my name. You are prepared for what will come your way today – just keep your eyes on the path. I love you and will see you soon.”
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It is evening, and I am tired.
Heart had her share of failures and difficulties. Oftentimes she had been spooked by hearing something moving in the bushes – that each time turned out to be nothing but a little bunny or a skittish partridge. Sometimes she insisted on eating the wild rhubarb leaves, which she knows makes her sick (and she wasn’t even hungry – Beloved had graciously provided the both of us food for the journey!). When our path crossed with another horse and rider (who were having a more difficult day’s journey than we were) who were less than pleasant in their interactions with us, Heart acted callously, responded inappropriately with anger and impatience, and pompously trotted off on our path, leaving the needy horse and rider hurt and perhaps more needy than before. When our path sometimes led through a hedge, where progress was slow or hard to discern, Heart would sometimes stubbornly search for another path, an easier way through…
I sigh a sigh of relief as I see Him waiting for me at the gate. Beloved meets me as the sunlight fades over the mountain and helps me dismount. I don’t need to recount the day’s struggles, for He was watching all of them from a short distance. But He is eager to answer any questions I may have about what I encountered. But as I begin to complain about Heart’s immature behavior, He is quick to graciously question me –
Who holds the reins, My Little Joyful One?
When Heart was spooked, did I take the time to calm her? Did I call my Beloved for help?
When Heart insisted on grazing on forbidden food, did I firmly redirect her?
When Heart selfishly ignored the needs of the other horse and rider, was I strong enough to turn her around and put their needs above our own?
When Heart refused to follow the path even when it proved to be more exhausting, did I encourage her to trust Beloved and bravely move forward?

Sometimes I did… sometimes I didn’t. But this is why we are in training. I am learning to be faithful in the small trials and temptations so that, one day, I can graduate to more challenging ones, where the stakes are higher. My Beloved goes with me, and Beloved goes with you.
So ride on.

 

Written February 20th, 2014 at 5am

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Fear of man vs the Fear of the Lord https://whybemerelyhuman.com/fear-of-man-vs-the-fear-of-the-lord/ https://whybemerelyhuman.com/fear-of-man-vs-the-fear-of-the-lord/#respond Thu, 11 Aug 2011 04:03:56 +0000 https://whybemerelyhuman.com/?p=59 Why am I so uncomfortable around people, trying to do things that others want me to do? In this video, Ryan dives into the...

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Why am I so uncomfortable around people, trying to do things that others want me to do? In this video, Ryan dives into the topic of the fear of man vs the fear of the Lord. Find the peace and understanding that comes from fearing the Lord instead of man!

Questions addressed

  • What is the fear of the Lord?
  • What is the fear of man?
  • What does fear mean in the Bible?
  • What is the difference between fear of man and the fear of the Lord?
  • Why should I fear God?
  • How can I get wisdom?
  • How can I care less about what people think of me?

Related Bible verses

Transcript

Morning! I’m a follower of the Lord and my name is Ryan McKeel. This is whybemerelyhuman.com and the video blog that’s on it. This morning I would like to talk about fear of man versus the fear of the Lord. I’ll start off with scripture: Proverbs 1 says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” I’m not particularly qualified to talk about any of these topics, but I felt the Lord impressing on my heart that I should talk about it, so here goes! There is a huge difference between the fear of man and the fear of the Lord in the Christian walk you really need to understand the difference. So, let me give you a few examples. If you’re at the mall and you’re very concerned with clothing, appearance, what you say and things like that, that’s fear of man, because you’re around other people and you really care what they think about how you act and respond and things like that. But if you go to the mall and you say, “Lord, tell me what you want me to do here” and maybe you talk to some people that you otherwise wouldn’t have, or you love the friends that you’re with and you try to support and encourage them, and you’re thinking about how to impress and please God, that’s fear of the Lord. In this case, fear needs to be defined. What is fear? Fear is not, “Oh, I’m afraid of you!” in this case with fear of man versus fear of the Lord it’s talking about “I really respect you. I value your opinions. I care about what you care about and I want to know more what you care about.” When you fear man, you’re caught in a frantic cycle of trying to please man. When you fear the Lord, you’re caught in a peaceful cycle of trying to please the Lord and being reaffirmed of your value in the Lord. So, it’s really a heart and mind change that will only come about by reading the Word, listening to the Spirit and praying. Those are all things that you do, but I assure you that God is in the mix and that He is the One that affects change in your heart and mind. Without Him, you can’t do it yourself. I’ve learned that the hard way but I’ve also read some good materials on it that I’ll reference maybe in later videos that really say that the Lord is in charge of our spiritual growth; it’s not us trying to push push push but it’s the Lord working to grow us over time. And we see that play out with adversity in our life, hard things that happen, painful things… my mother died when I was just finishing up high school, just a couple of weeks before I graduated and that was very hard. I loved her very much. But the Lord grew me through it. So, Praise the Lord! Because He’s the one that can turn bad things into wonderful, beautiful things; He’s the restorer of life. Praise the Lord. Here’s another passage: this is Proverbs 2. “My son, if you receive my words and treasure my commands within you, so that you incline your ear to wisdom and apply your heart to understanding; yes, if you cry out for discernment and lift up your voice for understanding, if you seek her as silver and search for her as hidden treasures, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God.” So, I really encourage you to do what this says – cry out for discernment, lift up your voice for understanding, seek her as silver. So, in this case, don’t pursue money, pursue God! Pursue understanding, pursue wisdom – these are the good things to pursue. And God will bless you for that by letting you understand the fear of the Lord. And I tell you what, whether you believe it or not, you’re either a slave to man and belongings and possessions and things like that, or you’re a slave to God! And I’ve always struggled with the concept of a “slave to God”, but let me tell you that it’s better to be a slave to God than a slave to the world!

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